As humans don't we all like the idea of having somebody "Perfect" in our lives.
A perfect companion - Somebody with whom we can share our secrets.
Somebody in front of whom we can just be ourselves and there is no pressure to act in a certain way.
Somebody in front of whom we dont have to think before we speak and there are no moments to be termed as awkward ones.
Somebody who cares for us selflessly.
Somebody who will be willing to bear our nonsense and still love us.
Somebody who will get irritated by you at first but at the end of the day not a mere thought of separation will ever linger in either of our minds.
You know they are going to be there anyways.
Such will be the power of loyalty between the two of you..
The most important part of this perfect person in our life will not be making you a better person.
They will inspire you to such an extend that we ourselves will start improving and thinking from their perspectives and hence start becoming a better individual.
There mere presence will bring forth an immense positivity within us.
With them by your side, we will feel that you can cross all obstacles and emerge successful.
They will help you and guide you in your emotional growth.
Such will be the power of faith between the two of you.
No matter how mature we become. We all have a childish side of ours where we just act weird and crazy. Be it picking our noses or acting like a nerd all day long
Sharing bizzare things with them and irritating and pissing them to the core.
Gossiping about anything and everything with them.
Eating absolutely inhumanly in front of them and still not be ashamed
Sharing insane ideas with each other and still not getting embarassed
Sharing moments of laughter and sadness together.
Helping each other to cope up with all sorts of situations and making each other strong.
Such will be the power of comfort between the two of you.
We are humans and we ought to commit mistakes.
Sometimes the people who mean the world to us will let us down.
They will stab us right in our hearts and derogate us.
The very person whom you loved and cared for will be the person guilty of tearing you apart.
As a result of which communication ceases and that "perfect" person becomes a "perfect" memory.
It is very aptly said that actions speak louder than words.
Sometimes it speaks so loudly that we are left with nothing to say verbally to our loved ones.
Our expectations regarding them gets ruined so badly that we are left devastated.
Our eyes become blurred.We fall short of breath.We grip our stomach tightly even if it hurts so that nobody hears us crying. That moment where we can't breathe and cry at the same time.
Feelings of loyalty and faith collapses never to be rebuilt again.
"BLINK"
Are relationships really that weak, eh?
Now it could be of any kind , best friend relationships, boyfriend girlfriend relationships etc.
Is love such a weak feeling ?
No it isn't. Infact,it is the most strongest feelings.
It is we who make it so weak and fragile.
None of the relationships are perfect.
Haven't we ever argued with our parents.?
Do we stop loving them after that?
Do we stop caring for them?
Most importantly do we start hating them?
No, ofcourse.
It is very important to understand that it is we who are preoccupied with the idea of a person being absolutely "perfect".
Can't we just ask ourselves that our we perfect ?
Haven't we ever committed any mistakes that we expect the person we love to never hurt us ?
Apart from acting so aggressively and ceasing communication with that person, we humans don't even make efforts to understand the reason why that person chose to hurt us.
Maybe he or she had to go through hell while he did such a thing to you.
Maybe he or she just had no other way and he had to end up hurting you and in return he expected you to understand his obligations.
Like we expected them to never hurt us, similarly even he or she might have expected us to totally recognize them because once both of them had promised each other that their love would be patient and kind.
Nobody is perfect. We are made of a thousand flaws are so are other people too.
Everybody is going to hurt us at one point of time.
We need to realise who is worth our pain and who is not. :)
By- Jyotika.
A perfect companion - Somebody with whom we can share our secrets.
Somebody in front of whom we can just be ourselves and there is no pressure to act in a certain way.
Somebody in front of whom we dont have to think before we speak and there are no moments to be termed as awkward ones.
Somebody who cares for us selflessly.
Somebody who will be willing to bear our nonsense and still love us.
Somebody who will get irritated by you at first but at the end of the day not a mere thought of separation will ever linger in either of our minds.
You know they are going to be there anyways.
Such will be the power of loyalty between the two of you..
The most important part of this perfect person in our life will not be making you a better person.
They will inspire you to such an extend that we ourselves will start improving and thinking from their perspectives and hence start becoming a better individual.
There mere presence will bring forth an immense positivity within us.
With them by your side, we will feel that you can cross all obstacles and emerge successful.
They will help you and guide you in your emotional growth.
Such will be the power of faith between the two of you.
No matter how mature we become. We all have a childish side of ours where we just act weird and crazy. Be it picking our noses or acting like a nerd all day long
Sharing bizzare things with them and irritating and pissing them to the core.
Gossiping about anything and everything with them.
Eating absolutely inhumanly in front of them and still not be ashamed
Sharing insane ideas with each other and still not getting embarassed
Sharing moments of laughter and sadness together.
Helping each other to cope up with all sorts of situations and making each other strong.
Such will be the power of comfort between the two of you.
We are humans and we ought to commit mistakes.
Sometimes the people who mean the world to us will let us down.
They will stab us right in our hearts and derogate us.
The very person whom you loved and cared for will be the person guilty of tearing you apart.
As a result of which communication ceases and that "perfect" person becomes a "perfect" memory.
It is very aptly said that actions speak louder than words.
Sometimes it speaks so loudly that we are left with nothing to say verbally to our loved ones.
Our expectations regarding them gets ruined so badly that we are left devastated.
Our eyes become blurred.We fall short of breath.We grip our stomach tightly even if it hurts so that nobody hears us crying. That moment where we can't breathe and cry at the same time.
Feelings of loyalty and faith collapses never to be rebuilt again.
"BLINK"
Are relationships really that weak, eh?
Now it could be of any kind , best friend relationships, boyfriend girlfriend relationships etc.
Is love such a weak feeling ?
No it isn't. Infact,it is the most strongest feelings.
It is we who make it so weak and fragile.
None of the relationships are perfect.
Haven't we ever argued with our parents.?
Do we stop loving them after that?
Do we stop caring for them?
Most importantly do we start hating them?
No, ofcourse.
It is very important to understand that it is we who are preoccupied with the idea of a person being absolutely "perfect".
Can't we just ask ourselves that our we perfect ?
Haven't we ever committed any mistakes that we expect the person we love to never hurt us ?
Apart from acting so aggressively and ceasing communication with that person, we humans don't even make efforts to understand the reason why that person chose to hurt us.
Maybe he or she had to go through hell while he did such a thing to you.
Maybe he or she just had no other way and he had to end up hurting you and in return he expected you to understand his obligations.
Like we expected them to never hurt us, similarly even he or she might have expected us to totally recognize them because once both of them had promised each other that their love would be patient and kind.
Nobody is perfect. We are made of a thousand flaws are so are other people too.
Everybody is going to hurt us at one point of time.
We need to realise who is worth our pain and who is not. :)
By- Jyotika.
